TOM MURRAY, PhD

AASECT-Certified Sex Therapy Supervisor & Relationship Expert

Enhance your clinical expertise, expand your reach, and build professional confidence.

You’ve considered whether to pursue advanced training to become a sex therapist. Now the time is right for you to take this first step toward your dream practice. I guide dedicated sex therapists to deepen their skills, navigate complex cases, and sustain business and professional growth. 

My goal is to be a collaborative and insightful mentor, helping you become a more confident practitioner in all areas of your professional life.

Get Certified

With the right tools and guidance, you will increase your confidents to discuss sexual matters, master the clinical challenges, and become the therapist your clients will never forget (for all the right reasons).

So, you’ve chosen the rewarding—and sometimes wildly unpredictable—field of sex therapy. Congratulations on picking a career that makes dinner party conversations awkward yet fascinating. But let’s face it: even the best therapists can feel out of their depth when tackling tricky cases, navigating ethical landmines, or just trying to avoid burnout from the sheer volume of feelings in the room. That’s where I come in.

I offer specialized supervision for sex therapists who are serious about growing their practice without losing their sanity (or their sense of humor). Whether you’re a newbie looking to sharpen your skills or a seasoned pro wrestling with complex client dynamics, I’ve got you covered. My approach is equal parts pragmatic and supportive—think of it as a blend of tactical coaching and deep clinical insight, served with a side of dry wit.

In our sessions, I’ll help you untangle your most complicated cases, find clarity in murky ethical situations, and refine the skills that make you not just a competent therapist but an exceptional one. And I promise we’ll do it with honesty, humor, and zero judgment (well, okay, maybe just a little judgment if you start quoting Freud unironically).

Focus Areas

  • Complex Client Cases
  • Ethical Dilemmas in Practice
  • Enhancing Clinical Skills
  • Navigating Professional Boundaries
  • Supervising Difficult Topics
  • Building Confidence 
  • Managing Professional Burnout
  • Maintaining Meaning & Purpose 
  • Addressing Client Challenges
  • Effective Communication in Therapy
  • Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
  • Treatment Approaches for Addiction
  • Supporting Clients with Trauma

What People Are Saying

A Transformational Mentor

Dr. Tom Murray is an exceptional supervisor whose expertise and thought provoking mentorship have profoundly impacted my professional development. His skills in offering clear guidance, encouraging meaningful self-reflection, and addressing complex clinical challenges has been pivotal in enhancing my confidence and effectiveness as a therapist. Working with Dr. Tom Murray is a transformative experience I would highly recommend to any professional in the field of sex therapy.

Carrie Morris, LMFT, CST

Certified Sex Therapist

Exceptional Consultant

Dr. Murray has consistently provided exceptional consultation supporting my professional growth as a sex therapist. He introduces novel ideas, challenges me to broaden my lens, and shares his humor which creates a wonderful collegial space. I often leave our time surprised by how much I can learn in one hour. Whether you are seeking ongoing supervision or specific consultation for cases, I highly recommend Dr. Murray.

Cheyenne Carter, PhD, LCMHC

Professor & Certified Sex Therapist

An Advocate

Dr. Tom Murray was always attentive, curious, and helpful when meeting with me and discussing my cases. He provided great feedback and gave me different perspectives that I was able to take back into the therapy room and utilize with my patients. However, the most important thing that Dr. Murray did was advocate for me when I encountered difficulties in the process that could have altogether prevented my certification. I would recommend Dr. Murray as a supervisor to anyone, as he will be nothing short of your champion!

Kandice van Beerschoten, PhD, LCSW, CST

Certified Sex Therapist

A Master of Supervision

With a unique blend of quick wit, a kind heart, and an unwavering commitment to the growth of others, Dr. Tom Murray creates an environment that is both supportive and intellectually stimulating. His ability to guide and challenge in equal measure has been invaluable to my development as a counselor. Dr. Murray fosters trust and openness, always encouraging self-reflection while offering constructive feedback that helps you become a better professional. His genuine desire to make a meaningful impact in the mental health field shines through in every interaction.

Paige Bentley, PhD, LCMHCS, ACC, SEP, RYT

Bentley Counseling & Consulting, PLLC

I empower sex therapists to deepen their expertise and navigate complex cases with confidence.